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		<title>Comment on Dave the Wife Beater by Marie Yates</title>
		<link>http://www.cvmen.org.uk/blog/2010/07/dave-wife-beater/comment-page-1/#comment-472</link>
		<dc:creator>Marie Yates</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 28 Jul 2010 13:54:35 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>This bought tears to my eyes - the desperation that man experienced.  However I am struggling a little too and here is why.  I worked with women and children (aged 7 years +) recently who had experienced domestic abuse.  Those children witnessed things little children should never see - punching, dads raping mums, verbal abuse  you name it they saw/heard it.  My job was to help these women and children come to terms with what had happened and to help them understand that it was in no way their fault - that the men who had abused could decide whether to hurt them or not and hopefully enabling them to move on.

So where does Dave fit into all this - as a qualified social worker I also understand his pain and that his background has certainly had a profound effect on his present and possibly his future.  I thank God for people like you who can support people as desperate as Dave which then improves life for all involved.   

Were you able to source help for Daves partner during all this?  (just a question not a judgement.)  I truely hope and pray that Dave is able to move out of his dark place and enjoy life again.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This bought tears to my eyes &#8211; the desperation that man experienced.  However I am struggling a little too and here is why.  I worked with women and children (aged 7 years +) recently who had experienced domestic abuse.  Those children witnessed things little children should never see &#8211; punching, dads raping mums, verbal abuse  you name it they saw/heard it.  My job was to help these women and children come to terms with what had happened and to help them understand that it was in no way their fault &#8211; that the men who had abused could decide whether to hurt them or not and hopefully enabling them to move on.</p>
<p>So where does Dave fit into all this &#8211; as a qualified social worker I also understand his pain and that his background has certainly had a profound effect on his present and possibly his future.  I thank God for people like you who can support people as desperate as Dave which then improves life for all involved.   </p>
<p>Were you able to source help for Daves partner during all this?  (just a question not a judgement.)  I truely hope and pray that Dave is able to move out of his dark place and enjoy life again.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Dave the Wife Beater by Tweets that mention Dave the Wife Beater – Christian Vision for Men Blog -- Topsy.com</title>
		<link>http://www.cvmen.org.uk/blog/2010/07/dave-wife-beater/comment-page-1/#comment-471</link>
		<dc:creator>Tweets that mention Dave the Wife Beater – Christian Vision for Men Blog -- Topsy.com</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 28 Jul 2010 11:04:46 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] This post was mentioned on Twitter by CVM, tkquincy. tkquincy said: Dave&#039;s Goldfish – Christian Vision for Men Blog: Some years ago I got to know a bloke we will call Dave. Dave was ... http://bit.ly/9jFQuz [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] This post was mentioned on Twitter by CVM, tkquincy. tkquincy said: Dave&#039;s Goldfish – Christian Vision for Men Blog: Some years ago I got to know a bloke we will call Dave. Dave was &#8230; <a href="http://bit.ly/9jFQuz" rel="nofollow">http://bit.ly/9jFQuz</a> [...]</p>
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		<title>Comment on Anthony Delaney: Diamond Geezers by Jonathan</title>
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		<dc:creator>Jonathan</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 27 Jul 2010 16:56:03 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>If it gets past our spam filters and isn&#039;t overtly offensive we publish our comments here :)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>If it gets past our spam filters and isn&#8217;t overtly offensive we publish our comments here <img src='http://www.cvmen.org.uk/blog/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>Comment on Anthony Delaney: Diamond Geezers by Andy Nametoav</title>
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		<dc:creator>Andy Nametoav</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 27 Jul 2010 16:34:12 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Don&#039;t bother to give feedback if you&#039;re a non-believer mind you, your comment will not get past moderation.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Don&#8217;t bother to give feedback if you&#8217;re a non-believer mind you, your comment will not get past moderation.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Anthony Delaney: Diamond Geezers by Tweets that mention Anthony Delaney: Diamond Geezers – Christian Vision for Men Blog -- Topsy.com</title>
		<link>http://www.cvmen.org.uk/blog/2010/07/anthony-delaney-diamond-geezers/comment-page-1/#comment-468</link>
		<dc:creator>Tweets that mention Anthony Delaney: Diamond Geezers – Christian Vision for Men Blog -- Topsy.com</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 27 Jul 2010 12:45:20 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] This post was mentioned on Twitter by Anthony Delaney, CVM. CVM said: Our friend @anthonydelaney is writing his new book &#039;Diamond Geezers&#039;. Get a taste before the launch next year ... http://bit.ly/dg5ERI [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] This post was mentioned on Twitter by Anthony Delaney, CVM. CVM said: Our friend @anthonydelaney is writing his new book &#039;Diamond Geezers&#039;. Get a taste before the launch next year &#8230; <a href="http://bit.ly/dg5ERI" rel="nofollow">http://bit.ly/dg5ERI</a> [...]</p>
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		<title>Comment on Potential by Alex Willmott</title>
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		<dc:creator>Alex Willmott</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 26 Jul 2010 12:56:07 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>It&#039;s the small things which count the most Nick, I agree. So many of Jesus miracles were beautifully subtle.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>It&#8217;s the small things which count the most Nick, I agree. So many of Jesus miracles were beautifully subtle.</p>
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		<title>Comment on The Leadership of Movements by Tweets that mention The Leadership of Movements – Christian Vision for Men Blog -- Topsy.com</title>
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		<dc:creator>Tweets that mention The Leadership of Movements – Christian Vision for Men Blog -- Topsy.com</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 26 Jul 2010 12:43:12 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] This post was mentioned on Twitter by CVM, Jonathan Sherwin. Jonathan Sherwin said: Brilliant video on Leadership of Movements http://bit.ly/cMhFi9 [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] This post was mentioned on Twitter by CVM, Jonathan Sherwin. Jonathan Sherwin said: Brilliant video on Leadership of Movements <a href="http://bit.ly/cMhFi9" rel="nofollow">http://bit.ly/cMhFi9</a> [...]</p>
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		<title>Comment on Potential by Nick Welford</title>
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		<dc:creator>Nick Welford</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 24 Jul 2010 22:12:09 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Well observed - ignorance can be as destructive as arrogance. And it&#039;s not just these extreme examples, but also in the smaller everyday things where I choose silence over speaking up. I&#039;ll stand up and speak up with you mate.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Well observed &#8211; ignorance can be as destructive as arrogance. And it&#8217;s not just these extreme examples, but also in the smaller everyday things where I choose silence over speaking up. I&#8217;ll stand up and speak up with you mate.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Potential by Alex Willmott</title>
		<link>http://www.cvmen.org.uk/blog/2010/07/potential/comment-page-1/#comment-457</link>
		<dc:creator>Alex Willmott</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 24 Jul 2010 16:40:03 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Yeah I know what you mean mate. It&#039;s a weird one isn&#039;t it? Jesus clearly despised racism, but also hated hypocrisy. So for me to judge the racist, would be to claim I am not a hyprocrite. Not that I harbour racist beliefs (sporting events excluded) but I do judge people on other levels. Ricky Gervais said something great the other day. &quot;The bones and skeletons underneath the skin, are almost identical to the next guy. It makes racism so illogical&quot;. Maybe a good put down would be &quot;Oi, fella, your bones are the same colour as theirs&quot;.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Yeah I know what you mean mate. It&#8217;s a weird one isn&#8217;t it? Jesus clearly despised racism, but also hated hypocrisy. So for me to judge the racist, would be to claim I am not a hyprocrite. Not that I harbour racist beliefs (sporting events excluded) but I do judge people on other levels. Ricky Gervais said something great the other day. &#8220;The bones and skeletons underneath the skin, are almost identical to the next guy. It makes racism so illogical&#8221;. Maybe a good put down would be &#8220;Oi, fella, your bones are the same colour as theirs&#8221;.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Potential by Pop Thy Collar</title>
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		<dc:creator>Pop Thy Collar</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 23 Jul 2010 17:33:05 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Well said and happy birthday.

Racism makes an anger burn within me.  So much so I have to be careful not to judge or retaliate against the racist, who is normally so because of his own upbringing and role models. 

I have yet to think of a half decent &quot;loving putdown&quot;!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Well said and happy birthday.</p>
<p>Racism makes an anger burn within me.  So much so I have to be careful not to judge or retaliate against the racist, who is normally so because of his own upbringing and role models. </p>
<p>I have yet to think of a half decent &#8220;loving putdown&#8221;!</p>
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